To Sum Up

Terry at Computer_Winter 2010

As my Sabbatical draws to a close, so too does this blog.  I’ve enjoyed this exercise of exposing myself, but it’s not something I’m likely to continue. It’s too revealing.  This may surprise those of you who know me to be rather vocal with my opinions.

youth is rudeI remain determined to speak truth to power and to name the things I believe, regardless of how unpopular they might be – and I’ve tried to be true to my voice in these missives – but now that I’m older, I’m not always so sure of myself. I’m not as convinced by my own arguments as I used to be…

You may have noticed that I like to use quotations.  And while searching out some memes to illustrate this blog, I came upon hundreds of sayings exhorting us not to doubt ourselves. But this kind of bumper sticker wisdom misses the point of doubt.  Applied wisely, self-doubt can ensure the ongoing integrity of our core convictions.  Without a willingness to doubt oneself, it is nearly impossible to question and let go of long-held beliefs that no longer serve us. The humility and possibility that comes from careful discernment and righteous doubt is invaluable.  And the weightiness of authentic doubt can serve as ballast to our self-confidence – keeping ego in its good and rightful place, as motivator not sustainer.

All this to explain why I don’t think I can sustain this practice of writing opinion pieces.

I have also found it to be somewhat unnerving to be so public with my thoughts and ideas. Not public, exactly – I’m fairly comfortable in the public eye – it’s the black-hole that is the internet kind of public that freaks me out.  I don’t assume that many people read this blog, but the thing about the internet is that once it’s out there it’s out there forever, and there is everywhere.  Isn’t that kind of creepy?

Still and all, I have found the practice of writing to be really satisfying.  Also, extremely difficult. I wasn’t able to maintain the discipline necessary to write as much or often as I intended.  The six-week writing workshop I took early in my sabbatical was a high point for me.  The Fernwood Writers Workshop in Victoria uses the Amherst Writers & Artists (AWA) method, wherein you basically just show up and write.   You read what you’ve written to the group, and people tell you what they liked about it.  No critiques, no corrections, no advice.   It blew my mind.  It was a much-needed break from the demanding, analytical, problem-solving mode in which I usually function.

That said, I’m feeling ready to get back to that mode.  I am extremely grateful for this time off – but I have a unique job for which I feel I am uniquely suited, and I am eager to return to work. I will, however, make a few adjustments to my routine, thanks to this sabbatical.  I plan to stop multi-tasking so much.  While I value being organized and efficient, I think there is something to be said for doing important things one at a time – it has something to do with being present.  I also plan to start journaling (again), and hope to take some more writing AWA workshops.

Finally, having played with the concept of intersectionality in this blog, I feel inspired to keep looking for the differences among us, rather than between us. I continue to feel called to explore the ways in which the various aspects of my work (church, activism, capitalism, social justice, affordability, security, tradition, marketplace, technical details, wealth, impressions, disruptions, facts, faith….) are interconnected and should be examined based on their relationships with one another.  This feels like a natural extension to my life’s work, and I’m looking forward to this new chapter.  Wish me luck!


2 Replies to “To Sum Up”

  1. I do wish you luck Terry! Love the Brene Brown quote!

    “Now that I’m older I’m not always so sur of myself. I’m not always as convinced by my own arguments as I used to be. ” Wow! I am right there with you on that! I have really enjoyed your blog and will miss it. Glad you plan to take up Journaling again. I’ve written reams but I think mine are more like diaries. The writing course sounds intriguing.
    Many blessings as you continue intersecting with life ! I sincerely hope the changes in church structure will find you landing in a place of continued service. You have much to contribute!


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